Tuesday, July 03, 2007
If You Wanna Lose Weight, Don't Go On A Diet
It's time for another weigh-in day on Teeeerrrrrific Tuesday here at the "30-In-30" Low-Carb Weight Loss Challenge. Lots of new faces have been hanging around here lately and I'm happy to see such an enthusiastic interest in losing weight and getting healthy. Share your progress in the comments section below.
With all the debate over the Kimkins diet lately, I couldn't help but think about this subject of weight loss and diets more so than normal. While trying something new to help you lose weight is an admirable thing you can do to shed those stubborn pounds, it's those people who feel compelled and obsessed about trying all the latest and newest diets even when they have found success before.
I recently blogged about this idea of "diet-hopping."
People ask me all the time if I'm still eating a low-carb diet. In fact, one lady from my church recently wanted to know if I'm "still on that crazy diet." Well, I'm still livin' la vida low-carb if that's what you mean and happily so! It helped me lose weight and keep it off for good.
Always dance with the one that brung ya, I say!
Unfortunately, too many people hop around from diet to diet always searching for the next best thing in the battle of the bulge. Such is the case of a woman who e-mailed me about her recent dieting adventures.
Here's what she wrote:
Hello Mr. Moore!
I'm a Mississippi girl who enjoys what you have to say about weight loss. I like the fact that you have tried all kinds of diets.
I did Kimkins and lost 18 pounds and I am still a member. But I have had a hard time getting back on Kimkins.
So now I have been doing Weight Watchers and lost 7.5 pounds in a week and a half. My problem seems to be that I get bored with any diet after a few weeks. I'm also a big cook. I cook meals every night except Saturdays which my husband calls "Sandwich Day" (he likes it).
All the women in my family after around age 35 have huge stomachs. I am medium-boned have small arms and legs and 5 foot 3 inches tall. Right now I weigh 195 pounds after being as small as 115 and big as 235.
I do have high blood pressure and as of right now it is normal. I don't know what my problem is but it seems once I lose about 18-20 pounds on a diet I seem to fall off the wagon.
I commend you for all your hard work in losing your weight and your interesting blogs and web sites. You ARE helping so many people and I want to thank you!
What I wanted to ask you about "30-In-30." I assume you mean losing thirty pounds in thirty days. But but do you mean by choosing my own diet choice such as Atkins, Kimkins, South Beach or Weight Watchers?
I just want to be clear in what your saying. Please let me know. And again THANK YOU for being there for me!
Is your head spinning as much as mine after reading that? HA!
Seriously, she epitomizes exactly what I'm talking about in this post today. Rather than celebrating her successes on all the diets she has tried, she allows herself to very quickly lose her enthusiasm about what she is doing.
If you wanna lose weight, then the best advice you could ever hear is DON'T go on a diet. What I mean by that is what I tell people all the time: find the plan that will work for you, follow that plan as prescribed by the author, and then keep doing that plan for the rest of your life.
That's it! Nothing fancy or difficult. Super simple!
For me, I had tried many diets in the past, but didn't ever think of ANY of them as a lifelong, forever-and-ever-amen, never gonna eat another way lifestyle change--until I started on low-carb in January 2004. Every other diet was merely a temporary way that I HAD to eat so I could lose weight and get back to eating the way I want to again.
It just doesn't work that way.
Until you wrap your head around this idea of making permanent changes in your way of life, then you'll always be stuck in "diet" mode. Sadly, this is where most people live and they keep wondering why they can't lose weight and keep it off. It's a rude awakening for most people to learn you have to change your habits and keep them changed.
The GREAT NEWS is that changing is not as difficult as some may think. When I started livin' la vida low-carb over three years ago, the process of radical change was happening inside of me that enabled me to reject sugar, white flour, rice, potatoes, pasta, and other garbage carbohydrates that my body doesn't need. It just happened and now I'm utterly repulsed by those things.
It's a lesson for people like this reader who e-mailed me to heed about what they should do. She lost 18 pounds on the Kimkins diet, but now is having a hard time trying it again. It sorta begs the question--why did she stop if it was working? Now she's on the high-carb, low-fat Weight Watchers diet and has lost 7.5 pounds.
But she says she's "bored" with it and every other diet she's ever been on?! Aw, come on! If you are seeing success, then you need to let that motivate you to continue on with your plan with expectancy, not give up for no other reason than being "bored." UGH!
My best advice is to find the plan you are LEAST "bored" with that will help you lose weight, get on that plan and read everything you can about it, find people who are on that same plan to help encourage you along in your weight loss journey, and STICK WITH IT until you reach your goal and beyond. It's a proven strategy for success!
THANK YOU for your kind comments about how my writings are encouraging you, but I hope you take what I have written today to heart. This isn't a game, it's REAL LIFE we're talking about. And your health and wellbeing is at stake here for the sake of those who love you the most.
Incidentally, the "30-In-30" Low-Carb Weight Loss Challenge is not about losing 30 pounds in 30 DAYS! Yikes! No, "30-In-30" means 30 pounds in 30 WEEKS! Pick your plan, work it as the author recommends, and push for that goal of 30 pounds in 30 weeks. If you hit your goal early, then start another "30-In-30" or however much you need to lose and MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!
Just stay focused on the task at hand and DO IT!
You can't be successful at weight loss if you keep dropping out just when you're doing GREAT! Yes, you will have a few stalls and weight gains, but that's all just a part of the process of losing weight. YOU CAN DO IT, but now you need to get serious.
Are you ready? :)
Do you have any nuggets of wisdom to share with this precious Mississippi woman about her dieting dilemma? Maybe you've been there (or perhaps you are in the same boat as she is!) and can tell firsthand stories about how you overcame it. Let's hear from you!
All opinions are welcomed and I look forward to hearing from you!
With all the debate over the Kimkins diet lately, I couldn't help but think about this subject of weight loss and diets more so than normal. While trying something new to help you lose weight is an admirable thing you can do to shed those stubborn pounds, it's those people who feel compelled and obsessed about trying all the latest and newest diets even when they have found success before.
I recently blogged about this idea of "diet-hopping."
People ask me all the time if I'm still eating a low-carb diet. In fact, one lady from my church recently wanted to know if I'm "still on that crazy diet." Well, I'm still livin' la vida low-carb if that's what you mean and happily so! It helped me lose weight and keep it off for good.
Always dance with the one that brung ya, I say!
Unfortunately, too many people hop around from diet to diet always searching for the next best thing in the battle of the bulge. Such is the case of a woman who e-mailed me about her recent dieting adventures.
Here's what she wrote:
Hello Mr. Moore!
I'm a Mississippi girl who enjoys what you have to say about weight loss. I like the fact that you have tried all kinds of diets.
I did Kimkins and lost 18 pounds and I am still a member. But I have had a hard time getting back on Kimkins.
So now I have been doing Weight Watchers and lost 7.5 pounds in a week and a half. My problem seems to be that I get bored with any diet after a few weeks. I'm also a big cook. I cook meals every night except Saturdays which my husband calls "Sandwich Day" (he likes it).
All the women in my family after around age 35 have huge stomachs. I am medium-boned have small arms and legs and 5 foot 3 inches tall. Right now I weigh 195 pounds after being as small as 115 and big as 235.
I do have high blood pressure and as of right now it is normal. I don't know what my problem is but it seems once I lose about 18-20 pounds on a diet I seem to fall off the wagon.
I commend you for all your hard work in losing your weight and your interesting blogs and web sites. You ARE helping so many people and I want to thank you!
What I wanted to ask you about "30-In-30." I assume you mean losing thirty pounds in thirty days. But but do you mean by choosing my own diet choice such as Atkins, Kimkins, South Beach or Weight Watchers?
I just want to be clear in what your saying. Please let me know. And again THANK YOU for being there for me!
Is your head spinning as much as mine after reading that? HA!
Seriously, she epitomizes exactly what I'm talking about in this post today. Rather than celebrating her successes on all the diets she has tried, she allows herself to very quickly lose her enthusiasm about what she is doing.
If you wanna lose weight, then the best advice you could ever hear is DON'T go on a diet. What I mean by that is what I tell people all the time: find the plan that will work for you, follow that plan as prescribed by the author, and then keep doing that plan for the rest of your life.
That's it! Nothing fancy or difficult. Super simple!
For me, I had tried many diets in the past, but didn't ever think of ANY of them as a lifelong, forever-and-ever-amen, never gonna eat another way lifestyle change--until I started on low-carb in January 2004. Every other diet was merely a temporary way that I HAD to eat so I could lose weight and get back to eating the way I want to again.
It just doesn't work that way.
Until you wrap your head around this idea of making permanent changes in your way of life, then you'll always be stuck in "diet" mode. Sadly, this is where most people live and they keep wondering why they can't lose weight and keep it off. It's a rude awakening for most people to learn you have to change your habits and keep them changed.
The GREAT NEWS is that changing is not as difficult as some may think. When I started livin' la vida low-carb over three years ago, the process of radical change was happening inside of me that enabled me to reject sugar, white flour, rice, potatoes, pasta, and other garbage carbohydrates that my body doesn't need. It just happened and now I'm utterly repulsed by those things.
It's a lesson for people like this reader who e-mailed me to heed about what they should do. She lost 18 pounds on the Kimkins diet, but now is having a hard time trying it again. It sorta begs the question--why did she stop if it was working? Now she's on the high-carb, low-fat Weight Watchers diet and has lost 7.5 pounds.
But she says she's "bored" with it and every other diet she's ever been on?! Aw, come on! If you are seeing success, then you need to let that motivate you to continue on with your plan with expectancy, not give up for no other reason than being "bored." UGH!
My best advice is to find the plan you are LEAST "bored" with that will help you lose weight, get on that plan and read everything you can about it, find people who are on that same plan to help encourage you along in your weight loss journey, and STICK WITH IT until you reach your goal and beyond. It's a proven strategy for success!
THANK YOU for your kind comments about how my writings are encouraging you, but I hope you take what I have written today to heart. This isn't a game, it's REAL LIFE we're talking about. And your health and wellbeing is at stake here for the sake of those who love you the most.
Incidentally, the "30-In-30" Low-Carb Weight Loss Challenge is not about losing 30 pounds in 30 DAYS! Yikes! No, "30-In-30" means 30 pounds in 30 WEEKS! Pick your plan, work it as the author recommends, and push for that goal of 30 pounds in 30 weeks. If you hit your goal early, then start another "30-In-30" or however much you need to lose and MAKE IT HAPPEN!!!
Just stay focused on the task at hand and DO IT!
You can't be successful at weight loss if you keep dropping out just when you're doing GREAT! Yes, you will have a few stalls and weight gains, but that's all just a part of the process of losing weight. YOU CAN DO IT, but now you need to get serious.
Are you ready? :)
Do you have any nuggets of wisdom to share with this precious Mississippi woman about her dieting dilemma? Maybe you've been there (or perhaps you are in the same boat as she is!) and can tell firsthand stories about how you overcame it. Let's hear from you!
All opinions are welcomed and I look forward to hearing from you!
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You know, I've struggled with the same issue for years, only it's not really boredom, I think it's lack of commitment.
We have a saying in my Mary Kay circle, "When I'm not motivated, I'm disciplined."
Sometimes you just have to stick with something even when you don't feel like it.
I'm doing Kimkins now, and I plan to stick with it through maintenance. The support network is wonderful!!! I have 144 pounds to lose, and since Friday (5 days), I'm down almost 7 pounds so far.
As I told someone in a post yesterday, if Bill Gates was offering lessons in how to make it big in business, we'd all get in line to find out. Kimmer lost 198 pounds in less than a year!!! I know this CAN work. I just have to MAKE it work for me!!!
We have a saying in my Mary Kay circle, "When I'm not motivated, I'm disciplined."
Sometimes you just have to stick with something even when you don't feel like it.
I'm doing Kimkins now, and I plan to stick with it through maintenance. The support network is wonderful!!! I have 144 pounds to lose, and since Friday (5 days), I'm down almost 7 pounds so far.
As I told someone in a post yesterday, if Bill Gates was offering lessons in how to make it big in business, we'd all get in line to find out. Kimmer lost 198 pounds in less than a year!!! I know this CAN work. I just have to MAKE it work for me!!!
THANKS for commenting! I read your post about Bill Gates yesterday and you are SO right! Keep at it, my friend, you are WELL on your way. :)
I think my biggest problem in the past hasn't been so much that I was bored, but that I hated the plan I was on. Hungry, tired.. you name it. Who want's to live that way?
My advice would be not only to find a plan that works, but to find you you FEEL GOOD on.
My other advice would be this: You like to cook? Well get busy in that kitchen! Try lots of new dishes that go with your plan. It doesn't HAVE to be boring. You can experiment and have a lot of fun! Who knows.. maybe you'll come out with the next best selling cookbook! :0)
As for me, my weight loss was just over 2 lbs this week. I'm over 1/2 way there now! I also measured today and I'm down another 1 1/4 inches in my bust, 1/2 inch in my waist, and 1/4 inch in my hips! :0) Lots of old "new" clothes are coming out of the back of the closet!
My advice would be not only to find a plan that works, but to find you you FEEL GOOD on.
My other advice would be this: You like to cook? Well get busy in that kitchen! Try lots of new dishes that go with your plan. It doesn't HAVE to be boring. You can experiment and have a lot of fun! Who knows.. maybe you'll come out with the next best selling cookbook! :0)
As for me, my weight loss was just over 2 lbs this week. I'm over 1/2 way there now! I also measured today and I'm down another 1 1/4 inches in my bust, 1/2 inch in my waist, and 1/4 inch in my hips! :0) Lots of old "new" clothes are coming out of the back of the closet!
CONGRATS, Sparky's Girl! I had to go buy Christine some new clothes yesterday since she's lost over 15 pounds in the past six weeks on Atkins! YEAH!!!
Hi everyone!
Great comments so far.....I know I have been on a little backward slide lately and was wondering how far I would go before I kicked myself.
Some of it was medical, some of it was emotional and some of it was boredom........all I know is that I was trying to figure out what the heck was going on.
I was eating stuff I never thought I would eat and at one time, NEVER give myself permission and I was slacking off with the workouts out(medical reasons mostly but I am sure I could have found a way if I really wanted to).
I am not sure what happened but this morning I woke up and told myself to get over it and get on with the program.
35 pounds on way to 50- is over halfway and I didn't want to lose all of that!!!!!
Then tonight I was watching Oprah(NEVER watch oprah) and she said that if you don't have the drive you don't have the power to lose it........hmmmmmmm lighbulb moment for me.
So here I go onward and upward AND back to the gym!!!!!LOL!
Everyone have a great week.
Wanda
Great comments so far.....I know I have been on a little backward slide lately and was wondering how far I would go before I kicked myself.
Some of it was medical, some of it was emotional and some of it was boredom........all I know is that I was trying to figure out what the heck was going on.
I was eating stuff I never thought I would eat and at one time, NEVER give myself permission and I was slacking off with the workouts out(medical reasons mostly but I am sure I could have found a way if I really wanted to).
I am not sure what happened but this morning I woke up and told myself to get over it and get on with the program.
35 pounds on way to 50- is over halfway and I didn't want to lose all of that!!!!!
Then tonight I was watching Oprah(NEVER watch oprah) and she said that if you don't have the drive you don't have the power to lose it........hmmmmmmm lighbulb moment for me.
So here I go onward and upward AND back to the gym!!!!!LOL!
Everyone have a great week.
Wanda
Jimmy, you are amazing! What good advice. Have you thought about writing a "Dieter's Devotions" book, filled with your tidbits of insight and wisdom? I think it would be a best selller!
Kay
Kay
You can do it, Wanda, because you have the "want to." GO FOR IT, GIRL!!!
Kay, it's funny you say that because I'm working on my second book tentatively titled STILL Livin' La Vida Low-Carb: My Strategies For Long-Term Weight Loss Success (or something like that!). THANKS for your encouragement!
Kay, it's funny you say that because I'm working on my second book tentatively titled STILL Livin' La Vida Low-Carb: My Strategies For Long-Term Weight Loss Success (or something like that!). THANKS for your encouragement!
Addictions always talk us back into using so that they can get fed. If you try something to defeat them they will lay in wait for a weakness to come along so that they can pounce on it or slide gently in on it, whatever works the best. Boredom is just one of many. Then they sit back and lap there chops very satisfied at there success. Then they usually have you broken so the get to feed as much as they want. You try to break them again and they go back into there laying and waiting mode and do the same thing again. They rationalize and convince us really well too.
Lost 0.8 this past week. My official weight is 139.2. Only 2.2 more pounds to my goal.
Incidentally, NutriSystem recommends 180g of carbs a day and I have tweaked the program so I'm eating about 80-100 net grams (after subtracting fiber. I think their 180g includes fiber, but I am still eating way less carbs than they prescribe.
Incidentally, NutriSystem recommends 180g of carbs a day and I have tweaked the program so I'm eating about 80-100 net grams (after subtracting fiber. I think their 180g includes fiber, but I am still eating way less carbs than they prescribe.
GREAT JOB, Victoria! I blogged briefly about your NutriSystem plan at my "Livin' La Vida Low-Carb" blog this week. :)
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